Sanctuary & Sisterhood is a monthly, in-person, potluck gathering at Oak & Ember Sanctuary.
Imagine:
A table lit by candles, plates full of food
Women in comfy clothes, not “networking outfits”
Laughter, honest sharing, and quiet moments that feel like a deep breath
There is no workshop, no circle “curriculum,” no productivity agenda. This is a rest-and-be-fed space — for your body and your heart.
We eat. We talk. We listen. We remember that we are not meant to do life, healing, or deconstruction alone.
Sanctuary & Sisterhood is for you if:
You’re tired of only seeing people in rushed, surface-level ways
You want real, grounded community — not performance, comparison, or “mean girl” energy
You crave a place where you can show up messy, tired, tender, or joyful… and still be welcomed
You’re longing for women-centered connection that doesn’t require you to have it all figured out
You want somewhere to go at least once a month where your nervous system can actually soften
You do not have to be “spiritual enough,” “healed enough,” or “put-together enough” to belong here. If you’re human and craving connection, you’re welcome.
The flow is simple and intentionally light:
Arrive & Land
You’re welcomed in, shown where to put your dish, and invited to settle. No awkward icebreakers — just a gentle hello and space to arrive.
Potluck Supper
We share food by candlelight. Everyone brings something if they can (simple is perfect). We pass plates, refill drinks, and let conversation unfold naturally.
Soft Conversation & Connection
We talk about life, joy, grief, daily wins, hard things, silly things. You can share, listen, laugh, or simply sit in the warmth of being with others.
Gentle Closing
Before we part ways, we’ll do a short check-out or moment of gratitude so your body registers: I was here. I was with people. I wasn’t alone.
You leave with a fuller belly, a softer nervous system, and the reminder that you are part of something.
When
Last Sunday of every month
Evening time : 6pm - 8 pm
Where
Oak & Ember Sanctuary in East Texas **unless otherwise denoted
Exact address and directions are sent after you register
Investment – Sliding Scale
Sanctuary & Sisterhood runs on a sliding scale with three tiers:
Backer – for women with more financial ease who want to help sustain the space
Supporter – for women who can comfortably pay a fair rate that keeps things going
Community – for women who are more stretched or navigating financial strain
You’ll see the full details and current amounts at checkout. You choose the tier that feels honest for you right now. No proof, no justification, no shame.
Wayfinders members: Sanctuary & Sisterhood is already included in your membership. You’ll get a separate email or link with details — no additional payment needed.
Because:
Community and rest shouldn’t only be accessible to the most resourced
This space takes time, energy, and real-world costs to hold well
Women’s financial realities are different — one flat rate can’t honor that
Sliding scale lets each woman practice self-honesty and self-devotion:
Paying at a higher tier when you can helps keep the doors open for others
Choosing a lower tier when you need it is an act of care, not “taking advantage”
You’re trusted to know what’s right for you in this season.
A potluck dish to share (homemade or store-bought — simple is welcome)
A water bottle or drink if you like
Anything that helps you feel cozy (sweater, shawl, etc.)
Most importantly: bring yourself as you are. Tired, raw, joyful, overwhelmed, curious — all of you is allowed.
Dress is casual and comfortable. This is not a place you have to “dress up” for.
This gathering exists because so many of us were taught to:
Hold it together alone
Only show up when we’re “doing well”
Earn belonging by being useful, pleasant, or impressive
Sanctuary & Sisterhood quietly refuses that.
Here, you don’t have to earn your seat at the table.
You bring a dish if you can, your presence if you’re able, and that is enough.
If you’ve been craving a place to land — to be fed, to be witnessed, to laugh and exhale with other women who get it — Sanctuary & Sisterhood is for you.
Come sit at the table.
Come as you are, not as you think you should be.
Leave knowing you are held by more than just your own two hands.
More than one night. Belonging, both moons, Sanctuary & Sisterhood, seasonal rituals. Save vs single tickets.
Wayfinders Membership — More than one night. Belonging, both moons, Sanctuary & Sisterhood, seasonal rituals. Save vs single tickets.
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Save ~30–45%/mo with sliding scale (Community • Supporter • Backer) vs single tickets.
Coming to an event once? Most members attend both moons + Sanctuary for less than two single tickets.